
This article caused an uproar! I found this in the Shine online mag from Yahoo. It was by
Brett Michael Dykes (Fall Beauty- Wed. Oct 7, 2009). But the purpose of my mid-week issue isn't to actually speak on the article but to voice the harm in the article.
You see, when we strive to lose weight, sometimes we get lost in the idea of being thin. We get raptured in the numbers and images on television - pushing for more loss until our perception is distorted and eventually lost.
I've been there. I've been a four before and thought it was the greatest thing in the world, until I saw pictures. Looking back now, I understand why some kept telling me to stop.
People who didn't know me thought I was awesome but the ones who did thought I'd jumped on the Crack Diet! I was too small and they began to worry. But not me; I loved it. I loved being a smaller me but found it hard to maintain.
Everyone isn't meant to be a zero or so. Sometimes, our bodies relay messages that we refuse to listen, causing distress and even health issues like malnutrition. Some folks even push to taking on new detrimental hobbies like Bulimia and Anorexia. NO JOKE, we do harm when we try to live up to, well... tiny standards.
As we traverse this arduous weight-loss journey, let's remember to listen to our GP. Remember to eat and exercise. Remember to make healthy decisions and drink water. More importantly, do your best to be happy. Avoid the sadness, deprivation and depression, seeking to be fulfilled and healthy.
This time, it's about doing things properly. Do your body, mind and spirit a favor and think positive. Think about what YOU want and not about what others think or say. More than anything else, find ways to not look like this chic from the Ralph Lauren photo shoot!
THAT'S NOT BEAUTY- IT'S STARVATION AT IT'S WORST!